You aren't entitled to ANYTHING. We all think that if we put our time in, that if we have been here long enough, that if we talk to the right people, that we are old enough, etc, that we deserve to have or get whatever it is we want. That's not how the world works. Now of course if you put the time in, then you increase your chances of getting whatever it is you want. But you aren't OWED. it. Many people that have been in a job or at a place for a long time feel that if they stay there long enough, that they will get the promotion. But who should get the promotion? Wouldn't it be the person that is the best person for the job? Sure you want a dedicated person, but dedication isn't sitting in one place for the longest time. You need to work and prove your worth for it. Sure some people will get their prize sometimes like that but that isn't the normal and shouldn't be the expectation. Let's take health and fitness. If you eat broccoli, you should be tone and not fat right? If you eat Paleo for 3 weeks straight, you should have rock hard abs right? If you pay to come to the gym, then you should be sexier naked right? NO, on all of these. Things don't happen right away. They take time and they take CONSTANT work, not work for 2 weeks, or even for a month. This gets back into the whole enjoying the process thing. Forget about the "finish line" you are looking for. You know it's out there and you will get there eventually but you can't keep some sort of scorecard that shows you did 5 days of working out and so now you should be a fit god/goddess. You need to work this week, the week a year from now, and a week 5 years from now. Since you aren't entitled, or "Deserve" anything, the only real expectation you can have is to constantly and consistently work. Don't think this means that 100% of your time goes to this one thing. It just means you need to work hard and you need to work often towards the things you want. Don't expect it to be placed in your lap, even if you are working hard. Be glad that you get the opportunity to strive for this "thing" and enjoy the ride! You will get yours and you will get the right thing, but take away the idea that you are owed it or entitled to it. Just put your head down and do work:)
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