C.S. Lewis once said, "You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending." It's an interesting comment from an author whose job is to take you on the journey in a story from start to finish guiding your every move. But before he had The Chronicles of Narnia or his other books blow up, he struggled. He made mistakes. We all have. There are so many things, and I'm talking about big things, that I wish I could go back in time and redo, or fix, or not mess up on, but I can't. All I can do is start from right here at this moment and at this exact location, and move forward. The hard part with moving forward is trying to get over the mistake you made. You want to think about them but the only way you can make the corrections is to really look at them and analyze them. You need to get as much information from them as you can so that you have more tools to work with and can move from that spot to a better place. Which means that you need to spend time looking at some of the possibly worst times of your life and mull them over in your head, extracting all the important facts. And this is the key, you are looking for FACTS. Many of our mistakes have been smeared with emotional stuff and then its really tough to see the facts. We are so concerned about looking bad, or being the victim, that we never get to the actual info. You need to sit down and look at the whole thing. See all the sides. Try to understand all the angles and now that you aren't in the heat of battle, extract all the stuff you can from it. Then use THIS to move forward. There are always lessons to be learned. There are always things we can do better. There will always be those things we messed up on. But instead of crushing yourself over and over about the past, gather all the information and make the future better. You can't change the past. Don't waste time or energy even trying. But you can change the future. Put your energies into learning, growing and making the next steps better!! :)
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